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4 Tips On How To Plan A Date With A Girlfriend

Got a great girl and want to keep a good thing going strong? Here are 4 easy to understand tips on how to plan a date with a girlfriend...



When we head out on a date with a girlfriend, we usually have a structure to follow.

We follow a structure because our experience has shown that this is the easiest way to keep a good thing going strong. It helps us enjoy ourselves and her much easier. And it helps her enjoy herself and us much easier.

Everybody wins.

These 4 tips are ideal for girlfriends. If you’ve just started dating, these tips are good, but you’ll need to adjust a bit.

And to avoid any confusion, when we say “girlfriend” here at Loveawake dating site, we’re talking about a declared, mutually exclusive girlfriend… Definitely NOT just any random girl we’re going on a date with. We recommend guys not let a girl become your girlfriend until you’ve dated her at least 3 or 4 months and she’s shown no red flags. We only want the very best.

So now that we have that clear, here’s are some tips we recommend for a date with your girlfriend.

  • First, the basic structure for most great date with the girlfriend is based on an activity. This means planning something fun, active and easy-to-do. Anything that has her moving around and preferably taking her aggression out on something by hitting it is great. Classic examples are ping-pong, wack-a-mole, billiards, tennis or frisbee. The more her blood get pumping, the better.
  • Next, have a meal. We like to go out, but cooking at home is good too. In general, keep meal budgets economical. If she’s a clever girl with a good attitude, she’ll want the two of you to be using your money wisely on your relationship – not squandering it on bajillion year old wine and amphibious French delicacies. Of course, for special occasions every now and then a fancy meal is ok… But that’s only after she’s proven her worth as a girlfriend by bringing a great attitude to the table while also pitching in over the course of the preceding months while dating. And if she’s a good girl then sometimes she’ll want to spend her money on a fancy meal for the guy she likes so much (you). That’s always fine.
  • Third, we have a quick note on weekdays versus weekends – For weekend dates, we usually let our girlfriends invite us out and have them make the plans. Weekend dates are usually more social, involve pre-planned events (fairs, concerts, private get-togethers) and are more relaxing. For weekday days, we’re usually the ones making the plan. Weekday dates are usually the two of us doing something more active, like the activities outlined above.
  • Fourth, mix it up. If this girl has what it takes to be your girlfriend, then you’ll want to keep a good thing going strong by mixing up your plans. Surprise her with your unique date ideas.If you always do activity then a meal, switch it around and try a meal first. Keep her guessing and keep her on her toes. If she is always excitedly wondering what the next date will be, perfect.

The way we train guys at Loveawake to date means that only really great women will make it into exclusive girlfriend territory. That means she will really like you, and she will honestly like you. Great date plans and strategies are wasted when a girl doesn’t really like the guy.

And when you find a good girl who you hit have a lot of chemistry with, great dating skills will let you both maximize the amount of fun and happiness you can get with each other.

Have fun and play safe.


5 Signs A Uruguay Girl Likes You


The way we do things here at Loveawake, not only will you be able to tell if a woman is into you or not, you’ll also be able to simultaneously move the interaction forward. Some of these signs she’s into you may seem obvious, but like everything here, we have our own unique spin on them.

So here we go – five signs that a girl likes you (plus one huge warning at the end):

Uruguay Lady Talks To You

The first sign Uruguay girl likes you is (and this may seem obvious) that she actually talks to you. Many women are simply closed to talking to guys who aren’t their type, others are closed to talking to any strangers at all. The fact of the matter is, not every single woman we think is attractive is open to talking to us. And that’s fine, because when you know how to meet a lot of women eventually we find girls that do like us. Girls who are really, really attractive. It simply happens. When it does, and she talks to us, that’s the first big sign we found a girl who’s interested (maybe).

She Continues Talking To You After…

The next sign Uruguay girl likes you is that she continues talking to you after you’ve made it clear your intention is to meet her (we do this by asking her name). If she tells you her name and continues talking to you, that’s another small sign she likes you. Her asking your name back is even better (this is why we recommend not giving your name until she asks).

When guys fudge around the issue with indirect BS smoke and mirrors ‘Game’-questions like, “Hey, where’s the post office?” then they never really have a chance to clearly find out if she’s into you or not. She may stop and talk to try and answer their indirect opener, but if she isn’t interested, then those guys basically wasted their time with a false positive. (Plus, if she was interested and you show her you’re too much of a wuss to be straight-up with her, guys are shooting themselves in the foot.)

Go down the straight and narrow – ask her name as early in the interaction as possible.

She Laughs At Your Charming Wit

Another sign Uruguay girl likes you is if she laughs at your witty banter and commentary (even if they’re not funny). Basically, your job as a guy is to simply make her laugh. Your job is NOT to show off your value, tell stories about your ex-girlfriends, or try to make her feel a connection.

Simply make her laugh. The rest will work itself out.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t – but most of it actually depends on her perception of you, not your humor skills. Don’t put the entire weight of the world on your own shoulders with the wacky idea that you’re responsible for how she reacts – we’re only able to control ourselves. So when she laughs, that’s her showing signs of liking you. Dig it. Rejoice. Be happy. Someone thinks you’re funny! A truly glorious day indeed.

Uruguay GIrl Touches You

Another one of the signs Uruguay girl likes you is she goes out of her way to touch you (usually when you are making her laugh). Be careful now, we said that SHE goes out of HER WAY to touch YOU. NOT THE OPPOSITE. If you’re all over her she physically can’t be all over you.

Guys who get all touchy-feely with Uruguay girls they meet (trying to do wacky ‘kino’ or weird palm readings or other Pickup Artist-y stuff) are, once again, shooting themselves in the foot. Furthermore, guys who a given woman is totally into don’t need to touch her since she’s going to be touching them, and guys who a given Uruguay women is NOT into are just asking for trouble by touching too much. Avoid that.

Exercise self control and hold back on the touchy-touchy.

However, if she’s the one touching you, smile and simply note it as a good sign. Ultimately, while we can get a good read of how interested she is, we can’t absolutely know just based on that, which is why we suggest moving on to verify the last piece of information we need to tell if she’s interested in you or not.

Uruguay Woman Wants To Give You Her Phone Number

And that last of the signs Uruguay girl likes you is when she gives you her phone number. That means you have to ask. ALWAYS ask for the number when you are in a conversation with a woman you find attractive. Especially if she talks to you, smiles, laughs, tells you her name and engages you in a short, friendly conversation.

To get her number, simply say, “What’s your phone number?” or “Tell me your phone number.”

That’s all you need.

No bells and whistles, just go balls-out direct and straightforward. She’ll either tell you her number, which is a sign she might be into you, or you won’t get number, in which case you can still smile and feel good knowing that you did the right thing as a man by taking the shot and going for it. Quality women don’t play games with guys they like.

If you’ve done all of the above, you may have found a girl that likes you. Congratulations and good luck…

A Warning About Looking for Signs Uruguay Girl Likes You

Now you’ve read several signs a girl likes you… it’s time for a big dose of reality.

All beautiful Uruguay women know exactly how to give off all the right signals of interest so that guys think the girl likes him. If she likes you, chances are very good that she’ll give you the signals above. These women are honest, good people. These are the ones we want you with.

But, some of the women out there will intentionally make a guy think she likes him just so she can get something from him. These are the girls with agendas. Gold-diggers, users, professional daters, etc. We want you to avoid these women and all the problems they bring into your life. If she has an agenda and you are an easy target (hint: Pickup Artists, self-proclaimed players and guys that heavily utilize “Game” make for very easy targets) then she will probably give you any and all signs a girl likes you that have ever been published. It might look, at first, very similar to the same signs that an honest, beautiful woman gives.

What is the remedy for that?

When we train our guys how to avoid these women in our in-depth seminars, we tell them to never to 100% trust these signs that a girl likes you. As you date her, keep your eyes open for the warning signs that she isn’t actually interested in you, just interested in your money, your lifestyle, your friends, your emotional support or your time and attention. Take everything slow and really get to know a girl before you invest any emotions into her.

Keep your eyes peeled for those really wonderful and beautiful Uruguay women out there who like you and have fun.


5 Ways To Suck At Dating

Behind every good date is a series of mindsets and actions that led to an overall subjectively pleasant experience. Likewise, behind every bad date lies a bunch of junky beliefs and ineffective actions. We’re going to point and break down some of the problematic ones here so you can avoid them now and in the future as you go about your dating life.

1) Touch girls a lot.

‘Kino’ is one of the biggest myths in men’s dating advice out there these days. ‘Kino’ is an abbreviation of kinesthetic, which means physical, often used in the sense of a kinesthetic learner as opposed to a visual or auditory learner. In the realm of internet dating advice for guys, however, kino has basically come to mean getting all touchey-feely with a girl. Usually as soon as possible, as often as possible and as much as she’ll let you. Big mythology behind this is that by touching a girl, it’ll make her honry, and thus want to sleep with you. BS. Pure, straight up BS. One thing kino DOES do is let you know if a girl is into you, because she won’t necessarily stop you from touching her… But that comes at the cost of framing yourself as a slimey grabby dude. Much better ways of finding out if and how much she’s into you rather than getting all molesty on her. If you want to suck at dating, then ramp up your kino and get as touchey-feely as possible.

2) Text her a ton.

 Another huge mistake guys make is texting and/or calling a woman too often after getting her contact info. Scarcity and value have always gone together like peanut butter and jelly! So when guys start texting / calling for reasons unrelated to scheduling the next date with her, it’s probably working against them. Practice self control and self discipline by only calling her to schedule dates. One of our guys traveled overseas for 19 months – in that time, a girl he had been dating contacted him twice, and he politely responded – and when he got back, things picked up right where they left off. No ‘pings’ on his end, no ‘magical texts,’ no ‘maintenance.’ So there you have it – if you want to suck at dating, text and call her early and often.

3) Converse about deep, divisive topics.

When it comes to conversational topics on a date, there are a handful we recommend you avoid at any cost. Topics like politics, religion, war, death, destruction, famine, the plague, finance problems, health problems, personals problem, ex-girlfriends or past mistakes. Some of this may be obvious, but we like to be comprehensive here at Loveawake. If you want to suck at dating, then definitely give your heartfelt opinion about genocide during your next date.

4) Don’t learn from your experiences.

Here’s something most guys never consider: by refusing to observe, learn, record and experiment with their dates, they’ll likely never grow… Or if they do, it’ll be a fraction of the pace that they would have grown had they done so. Guys who wander into dates with their eyes and ears closed shouldn’t be surprised when they can’t figure out what they did wrong (if anything), how much the girl was into them and what her personality / attitude was like. Without that raw experience-based-knowledge, it’s practically impossible to learn and improve. Likewise, guys relying on their memory is good compared to hard-bound written down stuff. They may or may do well over the long run, but they’d be better served by recording their observations and lessons from their dates every time in order to grow optimially. Finally, without ever experimenting, guys get stuck in their comfort zone and end up re-living the exact same dates and relationships with similar girls – and for some guys, that’s great because they’re already satisfied with their dating lives. But for those of you who really want to suck at dating, then refuse to observe, learn, record and experiment with your dating.

5) Stop meeting more women.

One of the worst mistakes any guy can make with women is put all his eggs in one basket. Until a really Amazing woman explicitly begs you to be her boyfriend and you explicitly agree, then you should be out and about meeting new women every single day. To slack on meeting women before that will inevitably and negatively effect your online dating life. Guys with less options act thirsty for sex and are more likely to do things that turn the woman off. Best way around that is to simply get up, get out and go talk to 30 or more women every single day. That really keeps things in perspective – unless a woman really is so Amazing that she’s beating out the 30+ new women a day competition (and yes, we’ve met some really Amazing women like this), then there’s little reason for any guy to lump all his eggs in one basket. So if you want to suck at dating, make sure you’re totally emotionally invested in how well things go with just one woman.


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